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NEWSLETTER EDITION

January 2, 2026

2025 Year‑End Reflections: A Season of Healing, Growth, and Community Power

As we close out 2025, I want to take a moment to speak directly to the people who made this year unforgettable, you.

This year was one of the most transformative seasons of my life. Season 3 of America in Black and White and the continued growth of Changing Trends and Times were not just professional milestones. They were lifelines. They were reminders that community is not something we talk about, it’s something we build together.

And I want you to know how deeply grateful I am.

To My Guests: You Carried Me This Year

Every guest who joined me on the show brought something powerful, truth, vulnerability, humor, brilliance, and heart. You didn’t just show up for an interview. You showed up for me.

Many of you may not know this, but 2024 was the year I lost my mother. Her passing left a space in my life that felt impossible to fill. But every conversation, every story, every moment of connection on the show helped me breathe again. You helped me heal in ways I didn’t expect.

Your presence reminded me that even in grief, there is purpose.
Even in loss, there is community.
Even in pain, there is possibility.

Thank you for being part of my healing.

Season 3: A Testament to Our Collective Power

This season wasn’t just successful, it was meaningful.

We tackled real issues.
We uplifted real voices.
We created real impact.

And none of it would have happened without you, the guests, the viewers, the supporters, the people who believe in the mission of telling our stories with honesty and dignity.

You are the engine behind this machine.
You are the heartbeat of this platform.
Together, we are making a difference.

Looking Ahead to 2026

I’m excited for what’s coming next.

More conversations.
More community.
More truth.
More growth.

And yes, I’m working toward taking the show on the road. I want to meet you where you are. I want to bring these conversations into your cities, your communities, your spaces. Because this platform belongs to all of us.

Let’s Build Together: SYTM Accounting & Consulting Inc.

As we move into a new year, I also want to extend a personal invitation.

Many of you know me as a host and storyteller, but I am also the founder of SYTM Accounting & Consulting Inc., where we support individuals and businesses with:

  • Personal tax preparation
  • Business tax services
  • Accounting and bookkeeping
  • Entrepreneur consulting
  • Financial strategy and planning

If you need support in 2026, I would be honored to serve you.
Let’s build your financial future with clarity, confidence, and care.

Reach out anytime, let’s make it happen.

Stay Connected With Me

You can reach me through any of my platforms:

Whether you’re a guest, a supporter, a listener, or a future client, you are part of this family. And together, we will continue to uplift our communities, tell our stories, and build something that lasts.

Thank You

Thank you for your time.
Thank you for your trust.
Thank you for your stories.
Thank you for your love.
Thank you for helping me turn a difficult year into a meaningful one.

Here’s to 2026, a year of expansion, healing, and community power.

2025 Reflections: A Year of Growth, Gratitude, and Unbreakable Community

December 31, 2025

As I look back on 2025, I’m overwhelmed, not by the challenges, but by the grace, the connection, and the extraordinary people who walked with me through this season. This year was more than another chapter of America in Black and White and Changing Trends and Times. It was a year of healing, rebuilding, and rediscovering purpose.

And that’s because of you, my guests, my supporters, my community, my family.

Season 3: A Year That Changed Me

Season 3 wasn’t just successful, it was transformational.

Every guest who sat across from me brought wisdom, vulnerability, humor, and truth. You didn’t just show up for the show; you showed up for me. You helped shape conversations that mattered, conversations that pushed culture forward, conversations that reminded us why storytelling is a form of activism.

You brought your brilliance.
You brought your courage.
You brought your heart.

And because of that, Season 3 became one of the most meaningful seasons we’ve ever produced.

Your Presence Helped Me Heal

This year also carried a deep personal weight, the passing of my mother. Losing her was one of the hardest experiences of my life. But what many of you may not know is how much your presence helped me cope.

Your interviews, your laughter, your insights, your energy, they gave me something to look forward to. They gave me purpose on days when grief felt heavy. You helped me keep going. You helped me feel connected. You helped me heal.

For that, I will always be grateful.

Looking Ahead to 2026

I’m excited for what’s coming next.

More conversations.
More community.
More truth.
More impact.

And yes, I’m looking forward to taking the show on the road. I want to meet you where you are. I want to bring these conversations into your cities, your communities, your spaces. Because this platform is not just mine, it’s ours.

You Are the Engine of This Machine

Let me be clear:

You are the reason this works.
Your stories.
Your engagement.
Your willingness to show up.
Your belief in the mission.

Together, we are building something powerful, a movement rooted in truth, empowerment, and community uplift.

SYTM Accounting & Consulting Inc: Let’s Build Together

As we move into 2026, I want to extend a personal invitation.

Many of you know me as a host, a storyteller, a community advocate, but I am also the founder of SYTM Accounting & Consulting Inc., where we support individuals and businesses with:

  • Personal tax preparation
  • Business tax services
  • Accounting and bookkeeping
  • Consulting for entrepreneurs
  • Financial strategy and planning

I would be honored to serve you, your families, and your businesses in the coming year. You’ve supported me, now let me support you.

If you need services, or simply want to explore how we can work together, reach out. Let’s make it happen.

Stay Connected

You can contact me anytime through my websites or social platforms:

Thank You

Thank you for your time.
Thank you for your trust.
Thank you for your stories.
Thank you for your love.
Thank you for helping me turn grief into purpose and purpose into impact.

Here’s to 2026, a year of growth, expansion, and community power.

“Loving a Liar”: When Hiding Becomes a Survival Skill

December 31, 2025

We don’t talk enough about what it means to love someone who is lying, not because they’re malicious, but because they’re terrified.

Terrified of being rejected.
Terrified of losing family, career, community, or safety.
Terrified of being fully seen.

In Dee Carr’s short “Loving a Liar,” we’re invited to look beyond the surface of deception and into the emotional architecture behind it. And when we connect this to the LGBTQ community, the conversation becomes even more urgent.

Because the truth is this:

Some people aren’t lying to deceive you. They’re lying to survive you.

The Code-Switching Closet

For many LGBTQ people, athletes, politicians, entertainers, clergy, business owners, and everyday folks, life becomes a constant performance. A carefully curated version of themselves is presented to the world, while their true identity stays tucked away, waiting for a safer moment that may never come.

This isn’t just “being private.”
This is code-switching as self‑protection.

It’s the athlete who dates publicly but loves privately.
The pastor who preaches authenticity but fears living his own.
The business owner who avoids pronouns in every conversation.
The entertainer who smiles on stage but cries in the dressing room.
The everyday person who edits their life to fit someone else’s comfort.

And the people who love them?
They often end up loving a version of someone that isn’t fully real, not because that person is dishonest, but because the world has taught them that honesty is dangerous.

The Emotional Cost

Loving someone who is hiding can feel like loving a ghost, present, but not fully here.

But imagine the cost on the other side:

  • Carrying two identities
  • Monitoring every word
  • Performing every day
  • Living in fear of exposure
  • Feeling unworthy of real love

This isn’t lying for manipulation.
This is lying for survival.

And survival shouldn’t have to look like this.

What Does Love Look Like Here?

Love, in this context, becomes a bridge, not a demand.

It asks:

  • How can I make space for your truth?
  • How can I be a safe place for your becoming?
  • How can we build a relationship where honesty isn’t a risk?

Love doesn’t force someone out of hiding.
Love creates a world where hiding is no longer necessary.

Let’s Talk About It

This is where you come in.

Have you ever loved someone who was afraid to be themselves?
Have you ever BEEN that person?
What does safety look like for you?
What does honesty cost in your world?

Drop your thoughts in the comments, your voice might be the one someone else needs to hear.

And if conversations like this matter to you, hit subscribe so you don’t miss the next post in this series inspired by Dee Carr’s powerful shorts.

The Empowerment and Resilience Framework: A New Era of Healing for Black Women

December 1, 2025

Climbers, y’all know I love amplifying powerful Black women who are doing transformational work and today I’m honored to spotlight my colleague, friend, and fellow doctor, Dr. Lila Elliott.

Her brand-new self-help journal, Unleashing Empowerment and Resilience, is officially OUT on Amazon and it is a must-have for anyone serious about healing, breaking cycles, and stepping into their birthright of strength.

Dr. Elliott is more than an author, she’s a visionary. With 19 years of clinical practice, research, and her doctoral capstone, she created the Empowerment and Resilience Framework (ERF), a groundbreaking model that blends Black Feminist Theory, Trauma-Informed Care, and Academic Resilience into a practical blueprint for real life.

This journal is not just for social workers or therapists. It’s for:

  • Black women healing childhood trauma
  • Corporate leaders rising above burnout
  • Teachers building safe spaces
  • Hairstylists listening to stories every day
  • Veterans, parents, and anyone ready to stop surviving and start thriving

Inside, you’ll find:

  • Practical strategies you can apply immediately
  • Journaling prompts to guide reflection and growth
  • Stories from women who reclaimed their power
  • Tools you can use in your home, workplace, community, and relationships

Dr. Elliott recently joined me on America in Black and White, where she shared how her work is rooted in truth-telling, resilience, and the power of Black women’s voices. Her insights reminded us that healing is not just personal, it’s communal, and it’s historical.

This book transforms you from the inside out. Imagine having a guide that teaches you to turn your pain into power, your voice into your weapon, and your story into a legacy. That’s exactly what Unleashing Empowerment and Resilience delivers.

Grab your copy today: Amazon link
Learn more about Dr. Elliott’s work: Her website

If you have a sister, coworker, friend, or colleague who needs a reminder of who she is, gift her this journal. Healing starts with one choice. One self-help journal. One moment.

Let’s support this incredible Black woman author and help get this book into the hands of every person ready to rise. 

Bill Gates Says Goodbye to Smartphones—Hello to Electronic Tattoos?

August 15, 2025

In a tech twist that feels straight out of science fiction, Bill Gates has declared the smartphone era is on its way out. The replacement? Not foldable screens or augmented reality glasses—but electronic tattoos.

Yes, tattoos. Not the inked kind that express your personality, but smart, skin-integrated tech that could revolutionize how we communicate, monitor health, and interact with the digital world.

The End of an Era

Smartphones have been our digital lifelines for over a decade. They’ve shaped our routines, relationships, and even our identities. But Gates believes their reign is nearing its end. According to reports, he’s betting on electronic tattoos, developed by Chaotic Moon and acquired by Accenture, as the next leap in personal tech.

These tattoos aren’t just wearable—they’re embeddable. Imagine a device that lives on your skin, powered by nanocapacitors, requiring no bulky batteries or screens. You could send messages, browse the web, unlock doors, or monitor your heart rate—all with a gesture.

How Do They Work?

Electronic tattoos use smart ink filled with nanocapacitors. They’re temporary, invisible, and interactive. Think of them as ultra-thin, skin-level sensors that communicate with nearby devices. They can track vital signs, detect health anomalies, and even serve as biometric keys.

In theory, they could eliminate the need for:

  • Passwords
  • Credit cards
  • Physical keys
  • Fitness trackers

It’s seamless, sleek, and deeply integrated. But is it too much integration?

The Ethical Dilemma

Here’s where things get murky. These tattoos would collect intimate data—location, health metrics, biometric identifiers. Who owns that data? How is it protected? Could it be hacked?

The idea of biometric tech embedded in your skin raises serious questions:

  • Could someone clone your identity through your tattoo?
  • What happens if the tech malfunctions?
  • Will governments or corporations use it for surveillance?

The promise of convenience comes with a potential cost to privacy and autonomy.

A Wellness Revolution—or a Digital Divide?

On the upside, these tattoos could transform wellness. Real-time health tracking could catch issues before they escalate. And without screens, we might finally break free from digital addiction.

But there’s a catch: accessibility. Will this tech be affordable? Or will it deepen the digital divide, giving only the privileged access to next-gen health and security?

Final Thoughts

Bill Gates’s vision is bold, and it’s already stirring debate. Are electronic tattoos the future of tech—or a dystopian detour? Will they empower us or expose us?

One thing’s clear: the conversation is just beginning.

Help Us Make a Difference: Back-to-School Fundraiser by Mr. NIL

June 15, 2025

As the summer draws to a close and the excitement of a new school year begins, many families in the Midlands/Columbia, SC area face the challenge of securing essential school supplies. To address this need, Chase Ransom, under the initiative “Mr. NIL Gives Back,” is spearheading a Back-to-School Giveaway—a community-driven effort aimed at uplifting our youth and supporting local families.

📚 What’s Happening?

We’re thrilled to announce our Back-to-School Giveaway! This initiative is designed to provide students with the tools they need to succeed. Your generous donations will help supply:

  • Book bags to carry their essentials
  • Pencils & crayons for creative expression
  • Colored pencils to make their work pop
  • Binders and more to keep organized

Every contribution, big or small, has the potential to impact a child’s life positively—making that first day back at school a bit brighter!

🎯 Our Goal

Our primary goal is to support as many families as possible in the Midlands/Columbia area. We believe that every child deserves access to the necessary supplies to jumpstart their academic journey. With your help, we can make this possible!

💸 How You Can Help

Making a difference is simple! We invite you to donate through Cash App at $Chaserans6. 100% of your contributions go directly to purchasing school supplies—ensuring that every dollar counts toward uplifting our community’s youth.

📍 Location

This giveaway is focused on serving families in the Midlands/Columbia, SC area. By rallying together, we can create a supportive environment for our students as they gear up for a productive school year.

Let’s Make a Difference—Together!

Join us in making a lasting impact. Spread the word by reposting this message, tagging friends, or connecting with us on social media. Let’s work hand in hand to ensure that every child in our community starts the school year off right! 📲 Follow and connect with Chase Ransom:

Thank you for your generosity and support! Together, we can uplift our youth and create a brighter future. 💪🏾❤️ #MrNILGivesBack #BackToSchoolGiveaway #SupportOurYouth

Transforming The Minds of Men: A Must-Read for Personal Growth and Empowerment

January 16, 2025

In a world where the journey from childhood to manhood is often fraught with challenges, Lovelle McMichael Sr.’s book, “Transforming The Minds of Men: Maximizing Potential from Childhood to Manhood,” stands as a beacon of hope and guidance. Available on Amazon, this powerful book is a must-read for anyone seeking to unlock their full potential and navigate the complexities of life with confidence and purpose.

“Transforming the Minds of Men: Maximizing Potential from Childhood to Manhood is in its 10th year! This book is a powerful guide to help men unlock their true potential, break cycles, and grow into their purpose-driven selves. My life’s mission is simple: reaching to rescue, teaching to transform, and impacting lives for purpose. Join me on this journey of transformation and empowerment—grab your copy today and take the first step toward a brighter future!”

Let’s change lives together! 

#TransformingMinds #MaximizingPotential #MenWithPurpose #PersonalGrowth #LifeTransformation #Inspiration #ManhoodRedefined #AmazonBooks #SelfDevelopment 

 Available now on Amazon: 

Why This Book Matters

Lovelle McMichael Sr. delves deep into the impact of fatherlessness among young men, particularly young black men in America. He addresses this pressing issue with compassion and insight, offering practical advice and strategies to help young men overcome the obstacles they face. The book is not just a critique of societal issues but a roadmap to personal growth and empowerment.

Key Takeaways

  1. Understanding Fatherlessness: McMichael Sr. explores the root causes and effects of fatherlessness, providing a comprehensive understanding of its impact on young men.
  2. Maximizing Potential: The book offers actionable steps to help young men maximize their potential, from childhood to manhood.
  3. Empowerment and Growth: Readers will find inspiration and motivation to take control of their lives and make positive changes.
  4. Community and Support: McMichael Sr. emphasizes the importance of community and support systems in the journey to manhood.

Who Should Read This Book?

“Transforming The Minds of Men” is a valuable resource for:

  • Young men seeking guidance and inspiration.
  • Parents and guardians looking to support their sons.
  • Educators and mentors working with young men.
  • Community leaders and advocates for youth empowerment.

How to Get Your Copy

Don’t miss out on this transformative read. “Transforming The Minds of Men” is available for purchase on Amazon. Whether you choose the Kindle version or the paperback, this book is a worthy addition to your personal library.

Join the Conversation

Have you read “Transforming The Minds of Men”? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below. Let’s start a conversation about the importance of empowering young men and building a brighter future for all.